Why would a couple start to swing?

Maybe he is always horny. Maybe she is the horny one, or both of them are over sexed....
Or they might have other reason for being a swinger.

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The idea of swinging is usually born in the males head, for one reason or other...

One of the main reasons that people become Swingers, is to explore and share sexual fantasies with other people, and of course make new friends in the process.

Another reason for participating in swinging is boredom with marital love making. Swingers feel that it is impossible for one person to satisfy another sexually over an extended period of time. Also swingers know what  the difference between love making and sex is.

Making love is an act of love, physically and emotionally intertwined.  Having sex is a physical thing, it may be fun, but it does not involve love.  Most swingers view sex as fun and recreational activity, but reserve the act of making love for their primary partner.

Most couples start to swing because one of them can't get enough sex. Usually  man needs more sex.

Men are highly sexual beings. They will always be highly sexual beings. Men were created this way.    Women might start to swing as a part of the couple, because they need more friends and more social activity.

Do you have a friend who is always hanging his tongue out like a puppy dog? That is probably because he gets too much sex. Wait a minute, don't have a heart attack on me. We have all had buddies who complained that their woman don't want to have sex, and this guy cries because his lady wants too much sex...?

If you have never been in a relationship like this, count yourself as being lucky. You always dream about a woman who never says no, but you never dream about a woman who will nag you all day long about sex. This happens and it had happen with friend of ours. When it have happened we wasn't friend, we  did not even know each other.  

Let me tell you a little story. I would make sure you are sitting down, because this will blow your mind. You think you want a woman who always wants sex?

Don't say of course, before you read the story...

He met this nice girl at a house party. It wasn't a sex party. It was just a regular party. He doesn't remember how it happened exactly. He thinks he was playing ping pong  in the basement with a few guy friends and she came over. She said she loves to play and asked if she could play. He wasn't going to say no. 

They played for awhile, actually he sat out to make room for her by the ping pong table and to drink a beer. He kept watching her tits jiggle as she played. She lost the game and had to give up her place by the table for the next player.  She went over to him and asked him if she can have a beer. He had beer, they drank a few beers, got loose and talked for awhile.

They sat and drank beer until it was gone. They probably had about 7 - 8 beers each and they was feeling pretty good. He was enjoying their conversation, even though they was pretty much plastered.

He lived about a ten minute walk from the party's house and  he asked her if she would like to go to his house for a few more beers. He didn't think it would fly, he figured she was just after for killing time. Much to his surprise she took his offer. 

They went back to his place and drank a few more beers. She pulled out a joint from her cigarette pack and asked him if he would like to smoke it with her. Pot is one of those things that he either does it or doesn't. I mean, he might smoke some joints for a few weeks and not touch it for a few years. He  hadn't smoked pot in a few years, but he thought what the hell. He might as well smoke some of her pot since she had been drinking his beer all night. They smoked the joint and drank a few more beers. Probably they were  really shit faced from the beers and the joints when she started to get all over him. Before he could realize what she was doing, she was giving him a blow job. He said, it happened so fast, he was shocked and wasn't even hard.

Shortly after all of this happened she moved in with him. It started out as being great. They would walk down to the park and have sex on the playground toys. He thought she was the best thing since sliced bread. They probably had sex at least five times a day. She wanted it as soon as she woke up, after every meal, and once before bed.

I kid you not, she wanted it like clock work. If she was having a good day, she might want to have sex in the evening while watching television or she would stop by his work to have a quickie during his lunch break.

He hadn't been laid for a month or two before meeting her, so the sex was a much needed release. After awhile though, he stopped wanting to have sex on his lunch break. He actually wanted to eat real food - not pussy...! But oh no, she was horny and she needed him to take care of her. 

He couldn't over sleep. On the weekends he like to sleep in a little late and catch up on some stuff that he might have missed during the week. Not with her around he couldn't. She would wake him up at the brink of dawn to have sex with her. There was no way to sleep in. In one bed with her, not much sleep at all.

The moral of the story is, being with someone like this is your worst nightmare. It might sound like fun for the first week or two, but trust me, it isn't what you think it is.

Here we will briefly discuss why a woman might have such a strong sex drive.

She confuses sex for love. Women do this all the time. They think that if you bang them you love them. Humans have been around for millions of years, but they still haven't gotten a grasp on this.

She might be covering up something from her past. Women can use sex as a way of covering up bad things that have happened in their lives. She might have been in a bad car wreck and seen one of her girl friends die or something. Things can mess up the mind and people want to escape.

Inadequacy she might feel that she isn't worthy of anyone's love. She will use sex to make her feel like you love her.

She is an addict. Crack cocaine isn't the only thing that is addictive, women can get addicted to sex. They might also use this as a means for relieving stress.

Hey, they just want to get laid! Some women just like sex. What is wrong with that? Some people want to get the nasty as many times as they can before they leave this planet.

Unless it is a pain in the ass, which it very easily can be, I wouldn't worry to much about this. I wouldn't get paranoid if your new girlfriend wants to get it on every other hour. If she is your wife and you see this kind of behaviour over a period of months or years than it is a different story. I would suggest that you talk to her about swinging.

If she loves sex, she'll love the swinging lifestyle. She can have more sex that you can imagine, if you can handle to see her while she having erotic fun with other men. 

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