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An open minded married couple (not necessarily a swinger couple) usually start to look for a third person to introduce in their marital relationship after being together around 7 years. After around 7 years married life and marital sex might become boring.

If the male is the passive one in their marital relationship, then they are looking for a male for an additional partner, because the female craves for a more dominate man to have casual sex with. If the female is a passive one, then that is a different story. The female can turn to be passive for several reasons.

One of the reasons are having marital sex becomes routine sex. Nothing new ever happens, because either of the spouses don't bother to try something new. New sex positions, new ideas to spice up an erotic scenario. There are a lot of options and possibilities to keep or bring back the excitement into married couple's sex life. Another reason can be: He just doesn't care anymore. With the I don't care attitude, it is hard to give her orgasm. With out an orgasm sex becomes bedroom gymnastics and sooner or later will be boring. And the third reason is: She is bi sexual or bi curious and fantasizes about having sex with other women.

So if the female is the passive one in a marital sexual relationship, the couple usually tries to find a woman or a couple with a bi woman for a casual sex partner.

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In these days, being a bi sexual woman is very common. There is no explanation why does this happens, but what ever the reason is, it will not increase or decrease how many bi sexual ladies are around. Because there are large number of bi sexual women, large percents of threesomes are female - male - female. Think about it, almost every man dreams about having sex with more than one woman, so why would they say no, when they find out, their spouse is bi sexual. Their erotic fantasy wont be a fantasy anymore and she will be sexually fulfilled too. This is a win - win situation for both of them.

In one form or other, threesomes are an ever-increasing - even in a average couple's sex life too. If a threesome works out right it is intense, exciting and can be as safe as their make it.  Plus for extra with threesomes - doesn't matter the trio is two men or two women, you can build a stronger couple relationship. I say this because a couple can accept a third person into their bed and share the intensity of their relationship with him or her without losing the intimacy between themselves.

How People Start a Threesome

There are several ways to go, it depends on their own relationship's deepness. For example I know how friend of my had her first threesome. She lived together with a man, let's call him Steve (they weren't married and were living together with out marriage). This happened after approximately 6 years of their partnership. She was a very good-looking girl (call her Jane) with natural long red hair, green eyes, wonderful long sexy legs, and very nicely shaped ass plus perky boobs. Her living in boyfriend, Steve's best friend was Tim. Tim was very open minded and what ever he was thinking, he was always saying it too. Tim was much more aggressive with women than Steve was. He was always talking about how much he loves to getting blowjobs and how much he would like to have sex with two women.

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He also told to Steve several times; a woman - and two men is a lot of fun too. Steve did not like this idea at all.

Until one night. On that night Jane was out of the city where they lived and Tim showed up with his latest girlfriend, Amy. Tim did not hesitate, he told to Steve they want to have sex and invited Steve to join them. Apparently he had already discussed this with Amy, and she would love to have sex with two guys at once. Steve after a little hesitation and after a little exhibitionist activity from Amy accepted the invitation. I should not have to say that the night turned out to be an all night long, three-way sex fest.

Steve realized it next day it had been more exciting than anything else he ever done before and he already started to thinking about how can he repeat it with Jane. Somehow he talked her into it. Since that time they had a lot of threesomes. You know what it's like to have sex with your lover; it feels great, it feel good and it can feel extraordinary good. So what about a threesome? If you are in the right trio a threesome feels 10 time as good as your extraordinary good sex with your spouse. The key word is the "right trio". The word right stands for casual sex partners with knowledge.

Why Would You Take a Third Person Into Your Marital Relationship

Remember how your sex was when you first hooked up with your partner? It was intense and satisfying every time. This time is a wonderful time in every couples life. Many couples experience it as the years goes by, their spousal sex life become routine. So what about if you meet a guy or girl that you both really like? What if that person was looking for a couple to play with? Would that person be a new thrill to your spousal sex?

Definitely that person could spice up things in the bedroom. The trick is to know how to search and how to find the right person. Because this is your relationship, a strategy has to be agreed on between you and your spouse before you even start. There are many reasons why a couple will invite an another person in to their relationship, you should know what yours is. An average person's reason is the excitement, the feeling of freedom in the relationships and the extra intensity of the sex.

Who Could Be a Good Partner to Try a Threesome With

Before you try, you need to be able to accept the fact, some times your spouse going to get used by the opposite sex. Also your spouse have to get used to the idea, sometimes you will be used by two of the opposite sex persons.

STD's & Diseases. There are all kinds of them around. There are condoms but still can be a fear that something goes wrong. You should try to find third a partner who you've known for a while.

Bisexuality. You have to get used to bisexuality too. You will now have two lovers, and sometimes one of them will be your same sex. It is nice and very erotic for a man to see when two woman playing with each other, but when two guys and a woman have sex, man to man touching and sometimes for the lady request even more can be happen. If you get three people on a bed having sex there is bound to be messy stuff that you'll have to taste and feel and rub against. You have to accept this, before you go into some really uncomfortable situation.

How Should You Start To Have a Threesome

Communicate. You have to let your partner know, what is your fantasy, if you want to make that fantasy reality. Once you and your partner are on the same page it's time to decide with who and how to go about invite the third person into the family bed. Who should be the third person? You should look for a middle-aged man or woman who has been in a long-term monogamous relationship and has recently become single. Middle-aged people (40-55) are perfect for a threesome with a younger couple, they are usually sexually healthy, and because they are still around, probably they don't have problem perform safe sex only. They are experienced and can teach a lot of tricks to a younger couple.

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If you think you found the right person the best results will be achieved when the man brings the subject up with the male candidate and likewise the woman talks to the female candidate. If a man approaches a woman, the woman will think he's just want to cheat on his wife. On the other hand if the female partner discusses the pleasures of a threesome with the female third person the cheating issue instantly disappears.

Same goes for the man-to-man discussion. If the woman approaches the third guy he will think she has crash on him and she choose him over her spouse. So the man should ask the third man and do it with out the presence of the lady. But have to be very careful here. If the third male is single, or divorced man he will try to break up the relationship and take the female away. If a single man has sex with a married woman and he likes her and if he likes what he get from her, he will try to take away that woman from the marital relationship. Men are just built that way. After few months with the new guy she will realize the grass are not greener on the other site, but it will be to late. Her spousal relationship has already been destroyed.

You as a man, have to make it clean to the other guy it was your idea, it is your fantasy and you want to share your woman.

The Most Important Thing in Threesomes

You and your partner - spouse have to enjoy it. If you don't enjoy it, don't do it. The threesome is for your and your spouse enjoyment, not for the third person. I you or your spouse don't enjoy it, then three way sex is not for you. Don't push your partner to try again and again,  it will destroy your permanent relationship.

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