When is right the time to start to swing? If you are single, you can start at anytime. If you are a couple then nobody can tell you when you should start to swing. Maybe never... only you and your partner should know the answer. However there are some signs, that might suggest to you, something needs to be done. The number one is why are you thinking about swinging?
Is there something wrong with sex?Is there something wrong with your love life, or your relationship? Do you feel that you need to do something to spice up your sex life? Truly good relationships are rare and wonderful, they don’t just happen by chance. They’re the result of ongoing learning and work. The Internet is a great place to start to get any kind of relationship related information. For example here, in this web site you can find everything that you should know about swingers and the lifestyle. These sites contain information for open minded males and females. Think about what you have here… A great community where lots of couples seek out new and exciting erotica, pictures, advices, stories and videos. There are a couple of sites on the net that do not cater for single guys. If you are a couple or single, either way, you can enjoy the stories and fantasies here, without having to hide the fact that you are here for hot and steamy wild sex.
A lot of men and women may feel a tad inferior when it comes to looking at sexy couples, slim Jane pretzels, muscular hunks. Please don’t ever feel this way. You are a normal person no matter what you may look like. I write this knowing it to be very true. I am a larger lady, and many years ago I looked at myself thinking that I was not good in bed, was not a great lover and I put myself down because of my build. Not any more. I have a partner who understands me, who loves me for who I am and doesn't expect me to look like Pamela Anderson. Apart from that with the work I do offline I see many men daily who love larger ladies. So while you look at pictures and read stories about hot babes with great tits, and athletic guys with a 10 inches dick, remember that you too are a person, regardless of your build. Guys remember too that you can be a great lover - size is not everything and size does not matter for everyone.
Is bigger better? I talking about dick....Maybe bigger is better for some, but how you use it counts for everyone. You may be asking what has this got to do with your casual sex relationship? It has a lot to do with it. Your personality, your self esteem, character, openness, your individuality are all part of your relationship with your partner even if that partner is for a one night stand only.
Let's get back to how to spice up your relationship. Well, there are lots of ways to do this, but I strongly believe the best solution is swinging. I'm not saying that you have to be hardcore swingers and swap partners several times a night. There are other erotic ways to spice things up with swinging. For example soft swing or same room fun.
Without forcing intimacy, friends and want to be sex partners can create opportunities to be closer to each other by arranging erotic interludes. You need to remember if you try too hard unfold your fantasy, it can inadvertently lead to disappointment. To avoid disappointment talk to each other about your fantasies, tell your partner what turns you on and find out what turns your partner on. If you want to plan a erotic weekend or a erotic party, talk about it first. Then when you feel the time is right, and you feel the new partners are the right persons make the move by and invite your future partners for a party or go out for a meal. Instead of going together, you meet at the hotel and after the meal you return to the hotel.
Before you return the hotel you should find out what your new friends like to do and what makes them feel good. You should discussing those hopes and dreams and rules and ropes that you both have and want to share. True intimacy is one of the greatest experiences in life, how you create and nurture it though is the real challenge. For couples to build a no commitments, intimate sex relationship, takes teamwork and openness from both side. To make it happen depends on timing. The must important element is timing and communication.
So when is right the time start to swing?
If you are a couple and seems your partner is uninterested in having sex with you than you have to do something. There are a lot of ways to spice things up. You can try any of the next "actions" or even better, try them all. If none of them works, then it might be time to start to talk about swinging.
1: Make ice-cream sundaes on each other’s stomachs and eat them. The hot fudge and cold ice-cream together on your skin creates quite a sensation. 2: Buy a cheap plastic shower curtain and a bottle of baby oil. Warm the oil in a hot water, and lay the curtain over your bed or on the living room floor. Squirt the oil all over the curtain and get naked!
3: Gently tie and blindfold him while he lies on the bed. Stand at the side of the bed and lightly trail your fingers all over his body. Leave his genital area alone for as long as possible. When you deprive him of his sense of sight, his other senses will kick into overdrive.
4: Put money in a jar every time when you have any kind of sex. This is a great way to safe money to buy Christmas presents. Oral sex gets a 2 bucks, a hand job gets a buck. If he can't make her come is 3 bucks. If you videotape it, it’s a five-dollar bill. It’s a great incentive!
5: Do something unexpected. For example go get a drink with ice and then go down on her / him while the ice in your mouth. Oral sex - cold ice - hot tongue will be fabulous. 6: I mentioned above the video. You can try to make your own movie with exactly what you want in it. Just make sure you lock it up tight when you’re done.
If none of these things will work, then the time is right to start to talking about swinging. Try to enjoy your fantasies, experiment and live your dreams together. The thing to keep in mind is that swinging is meant to be safe and fun. If you feel that this is something you are interested in, then go for it and have fun!
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