How To Play With Her Clitoris

Even sex therapist don't know as much about women's genitals and women's sexual pleasures than men's. If you search Google for "How to play with her clitoris", Google will bring up 1480000 web pages. However only the first three WebPages will give you good clitoris play related information.

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So I will try to do my best to give you some really good erotic clitoris play related information. No, I am not a sexologist, but I am a woman and I know what feel good when someone plays with my clit. The first thing that you should know is, the clitoris the only female body part, whose purpose erotic pleasure only. That is right, erotic pleasure only, nothing else! No men and no women have any other body part like this. You should not ignore this fact, it is mean that, the clitoris was created to give sexual pleasure only, so when the things are getting hot, you should spend fair amount of time on your partner's clit.

The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman. It is located at the top of the vagina as can be see in the picture at next. If you are a man and serious about give sexual pleasure to your lady partner, you should know this location pretty well. You need to find her clit in dark or in a position when you can't see. When the clitoris area gets touched she might feel a wave of pleasure or if you are not gentle enough she might feel pain. The clitoris is her pleasure button to receive mind blowing orgasm. You just have to know how to push it... Most of the masturbating women don't try to have vaginal orgasms. They might use vibrator to stimulate the inside of their vagina and with their other hand's fingers they play with their clitoris. Some better vibrator has a build in clitoris stimulator. Women do masturbate like this because much more easier to reach clitoral orgasms then vaginal orgasm.

In fact some women can not reach orgasm from vaginal penetration only, but the stimulation of the clitoris almost makes come every ladies.

Let's talk about the clitoris

You already know where it is. Take a close look at that picture at right. Do you see that skin around it? Now you move on to the hood of skin covering her clitoris. That is the little nub of flesh to the front her her vagina. If a woman is excited, her clitoris will be hard and erected, almost like a penis. Of course much smaller. If she is not totally excited, it will be soft and very small. If you would like to give her a clitoral orgasm, you better perform oral sex on her. If her clitoris is not totally hard, you did not turn her on good enough. You have to suck gently on the hood over her clit, not yet touching the clit itself. You can use a finger from one hand to stroke her vaginal lips. If you feel moisture on them, you can very gently insert just the very tip of your finger between her lips as you suck over her clit. After a little while - and don't rush - gently push back the skin so that the clitoris is exposed. Be very gentle with it - there are a lot of nerve endings in this piece of flesh. Gently suck it - VERY gently. Alternate sucking with soft licking with the tip of your tongue.

Now here are a few things you can try with her clitoris. She might like them.

• Try licking her clit in fast little circles
• Insert your finger into her canal
• Try licking in figure eight motions
• Use both hands to hold her legs apart
• Move the finger inside her like you were stirring a very small cup of coffee
• Put a second finger inside of her and spread the two fingers gently apart, then together over and over
• Lick her clit in a short, fast up and down motion
• Push her legs into the air and hold them there

If you like to watch porn movies, you should watch some lesbian action movies. You will see when lesbians fingering each others, they use two fingers, not one and not tree. If you try to finger fuck your lady you should remember for this fact. You don't need to shoving three fingers into her vagina. Two of your fingers good enough. Use them make sensuous circle inside her, gently tagging the vaginal wall, here and there, mainly the first inch in deepness, because that area has more sensitivity the the deeper part. Also you should try to find her G spot too.

You can try other things, too. Make sure to pay attention, because at some point, your partner will become more excited. She may grab your head or start pulling your hair. If she pulls your head toward her, try not to change what you are doing with your tongue any more. A lot of men think that when a woman reaches her peak of excitement just before she climaxes that this would be a great time to add variety. Don't. This is a great time to keep doing exactly what turned her on the most. Something to note here is that if a man starts to orgasm and the physical stimulation that got him there is removed, he will probably continue his orgasm. This is not the case for women. If you stop licking her before she had a orgasm, her orgasm will stop in the middle, and she will be very, very frustrated.

Never use teeth on a clitoris. There is no point to bit her most sensitive body part. Use a gentle touch always, unless requested otherwise. Be sure to pay attention so you'll know which things you did that she liked the best. A man that gives great oral sex to a woman can bring her her greatest sexual pleasure.

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