Women's Top Erotic Fantasies

It shouldn't be surprising that women have erotic fantasies also. Sometimes, they are more sexual than men's. Sometimes they stay erotic fantasies, and sometimes they turn to be reality. If you really would like to enjoy sex, you should turn her fantasy into reality! But first you have to find out, does she have an erotic fantasy? How can you find  it out? Talk about your erotic fantasy and ask for hers.

The easiest way to do it to bring up the topic of sexual fantasies. Open communication is very important in any sexual relationship. Tell her that sometimes you imagine her having sex with strangers and this really gets you going. Ask her if she ever imagines things like this. Ask her if it turns her on? You can mention any of the following erotic fantasies? Probably just the fact of talking about it will arouse her.

If you want to turn your partner on through sexual fantasies, all you have to do is start talking about it. It may be a slow process, but it's guaranteed to create an incredible sexual experience!

Having sex with strangers

This might sound odd, but women fantasize about this as well. Having sex with a complete stranger takes away the pressure. People feel like they don't have a standard they have to live with, since they won't be coming back for seconds. People engage in this type of sex because they feel that they won't be judged.

The only thing they are after is getting their rocks off, so if it feels good, then there is no reason to judge.

Group Sex

The more people the better: Group sex can be exciting for a woman. I don't mean that they want you to call your buddies over for a gang bang. Some women tend to like the idea of a bunch of nude people together having sex with multiply sex partners. That is why they are into swinging.

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To Be Spanked

Are you my daddy? Some women like to be controlled or to control their partner. Sometimes they want to be spanked and told to yell out slogans or phrases. Sometimes they may want to spank you and have you suck on things.

Exhibitionisms -  Having Sex in Public

This really turns some women on. The idea of someone else watching them in the heat of the moment in public can be a real turn on. Find a place that you can feel secure and bang the night away. She will love it.

Domination

While I don't understand this one, a lot of people love it. Some women want to be told how and when to do things. She might like it when you tell her to lick your testicles and suck on your penis, I have known women who really get off on this sort of thing. Try it out, she might like it.

Pain - Sex - Pleasures

Some women like to be roughed up a bit. They love to mix the pleasure with pain. They want you to spank them hard and tell them that you will hurt them if you don't have sex with them. I don't understand it, to me it sounds too much like rape. But if it gets her off, that is all that matters.

Lesbianism - Bi Sexuality

Having sex with another woman. This shouldn't be no big surprise. Women can be better at pleasing another woman. Most men like it, some don't. If your woman likes to do this and it turns you own, enjoy it. Lesbianism can be a beautiful thing. Have her invite friends over that will also allow you to participate. I have done this and it is great. After the first time you will be hooked. Hell, I can just sit and watch them go at it and I am in ecstasy.

Being a Hooker

It is the oldest profession in the world. Some people think it is dirty, some women find it to be a turn on. That is probably why there isn't a shortage of whores in this world. People like receiving rewards for a job well done. If a woman fantasizes about being a hooker, chances are a big part of her fantasy is that the guy gives her a big tip for pleasuring him.  This kind of erotic game usually turn the guy on too, because he can ask to do that kind of erotic think from a hooker, that he might never ask from his spouse.

A Three Way Sexual Relationship - Threesomes

This is common for both men and women. Two people can pleasure better than one. The most common fantasy is where a man is doing her from behind, doggy style, while she perform oral sex on another.

Having two partners in bed, doubles the pleasure. Makes the evening more enjoyable. This goes for women as well as it does for men. If she wants you to do this, do it if you are comfortable. If the idea of another man banging your partner is okay with you, do it until your hearts content. Also it can be a big male performance exchanger, because every guy would like to out perform the other.

If someone invited you to participate in a threesome, just go for it. You will have a lot of fun and  she might as well have some fun too.

Being The Man Of The Hour

This sounds kinky for men, but this is one of the more popular fantasies women have. Most say that they want to use a strap on dildo and have sex with their male partner.

I don't think it is as much about the sex as it is the power. The feeling of having a penis and using it. Feeling him squabble when she sticks the fake penis in his anus. It is about power. Some women want that power. Some men don't mind it, but most of them say, "No way!"

Being Raped

With all the news of violence and rape in the news towards women, this one took me by surprise. I'm not sure how to react to it and I am not sure how to write about it.

Some women want to be slapped and beat and forced to have sex. Just like you would expect to see if you were watching a woman get raped. They want you to put your hand up their skirts and feel their panties. They want you to kiss them hard so their lipstick runs across their face.

I think this comes from wanting to be powerless. They want to feel that someone else is in control of them and their fate. Please don't engage in this sort of thing unless you are 100% sure that she is a willing participant. You could end up actually raping someone and going to jail if you don't.

Does Size Make a Different?

Lot of women have erotic fantasy to having sex with guy who have a porn star like penis. Maybe they never had one, or maybe they did have and they loved it. Did you ever read a swingers ad: "Looking for sex partner with 8 plus dick?"

Does size make a different? The average penis size is between 5 and 6 inches. Some men are bigger, some are smaller. Where you stand at? Are you bigger or smaller?

Most women seem to be very unclear as to what it is they seek in a larger penis. Many women complain only when a man becomes insecure about his smaller penis.

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