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Are there different level of swingers? Are there different level of swinging? If
you would like to know the answers, please read the following.
We have collected the next info on the web, and does not necessarily
reflect our views about swinging and swingers. However, it does give some
important info about swingers and swinging type.
CAUTIOUS SWINGERS: They are sometimes, but not always first timer or "newbie". They realize this is
an important step in a relationship, and want to take their time. Others must
respect their limits and pace.
While many females are rather reluctant to get involved in swinging, once they
do, they generally accept initial experiences more successfully than males.
Women are usually either enthusiastic converts or completely turned off by the
experience. Generally, cautious swingers are relatively selective when they
first become involved. Curious swingers may test the lifestyle several times
over many years before trying the swinging lifestyle.
RECREATIONAL SWINGERS:
Recreational swingers swing as a social activity. Like others
play cards or baseball. They want to develop friendships as well as swinging
relationships. Swinging is more than sex to them.
Recreational swingers may drop in and out of swinging for short or long periods
of time. Swinging is not a full part of their lifestyle.
SALVAGE SWINGERS: Salvage swingers participate in swinging to relieve boredom
with marital sex. For them swinging is a method of adding new excitement to the
marriage, perhaps even salvaging it. Most swingers know couples who have tried
to salvage a bad marriage by swinging, but they argue that this generally has
not been very successful. Most swingers believe that swinging alone cannot save
a bad marriage, however they do believe that it can strengthen a good marriage.
PREDATOR SWINGERS: Predator swingers can be male or female, single or couple and
are typically found preying on the first timer swingers. In many cases
this type of swinger is not well liked or even swing amongst their peers. Since
first timer swingers are relatively uninformed, they are perfect for the
predator. Predators are the easiest swinger to spot at any party, they will enter
rooms time and time again without being invited or bringing a mate, they will
continue to play when told NO, they will join a large group without being seen
or invited. Predator swingers will lie in their ads and face to face if they
feel they can get what they want. Predators can be very pushy or aggressive and
sometimes make you feel uncomfortable to talk with.
Some predators are smooth talkers. There are not too many out there and most
swingers community are very efficient at keeping them in line or OUT! All swingers should
fully respect your feelings and right to say NO! No one will tell you that they
are a predator, but you should be able to recognize the type.
SINGLE SPOUSE SWINGERS: They believe in a double standard, one partner is more
involved than the other in the lifestyle. Many single spouse swingers have
conflicts between each other about actually swinging. They may call themselves
swingers but in truth, one partner finds the lifestyle improper or disgusting
while the other partner wants to be a part of the swinging lifestyle. Sometimes,
the wife/husband will be having sexual relations with other partners, because
the female/male may have had sexual relations outside the marriage with another
partner previously.
Also in some cases couples getting together and only one spouse
participating, because the others do not feel comfortable. They are only there to
please their spouse and not themselves.
Most one sided swingers never actually swing or one partner may take liberties
on their own.
HARD CORE SWINGERS: Hard Core Swingers have XXX in their mind and get down to the basics of sex with other
couples as soon as possible. Many hard core swingers will play and have sexual intercourse with one or
many partners. Hardcore don't need to be friends, and may not even need to know
each other names. They believe swinging is just pure sex, and will generally
only meet with other swingers to have sex only.
All swingers type by definition, fall into one of these two categories
SOFT SWINGERS: Soft swingers (soft swing) will generally engage in most sexual activities,
excluding penetration. Soft swingers will both play to their mutual comfort
levels. Many soft swingers will play or get sexually aroused with other couples
and then partner up with their own mate for intercourse.
FULL SWAP SWINGERS: Full swap swingers engage in all forms of sex including penetration,
but may have other guidelines they follow such as same room sex, size of groups,
etc...
HEAD GAMERS: They may call themselves swingers but in truth, they
aren't swingers. They thinking about swinging and looking for swingers partner.
They will exchange emails and pictures maybe go to the first meeting, but if the
things get to serious, than they'll back off. Few days or weeks later they start
again. They are just waste of time.
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