How To Perform Oral Sex on Men

Oral Sex means both mouth contact with the vagina, which is called cunnilingus, and mouth contact with the penis, which is called fellatio.

Oral sex for men is called fellatio. Youngsters call it "Blowjob". The most important: You must love the penis you're with. You have to remember the penis is not a baseball bat, don't hold back. Some gals try to give a head while holding their partner's penis at arm's length. If you decided to perform a blow job you have to appreciate the beauty of penis. They are all different, but there is something to love about nearly every one of them. Maybe it nice and big, or silky or strait, perhaps it have dashing curve. If you are a female and unable to love penis with out turning off the light, then you have got a major problem in your sexual life.

The experience of having their penis sucked, licked and kissed is one that most men find intensely exciting. In some cases, there may be psychological barriers to overcome. Some men fear being bitten during oral sex. The woman should open her mouth as wide as possible, and close her lips, but not her teeth, over the penis. Using all the muscles in the lips and tongue will mean that the teeth should not come into contact with the penis at all.

Some women are worried that they may be choked during fellatio. Well the penis is not ice cream. Do you think guys want to get dick-licking service? No they doesn't want that! They want to get deep throated. The deeper is better, best until your throat. The way to allay this fear is to remain in control: you are the one who should move while your partner lies still, so there is no possibility of his thrusting deep into your throat and making you gag.  Detailed how to deepthroat guide >>>

Some women find the idea of swallowing semen repugnant. Of course there is no need for you to do this if you do not wish to, but many women do enjoy having their partner ejaculate into their mouth. Most of the man enjoy to do this... Why? It is largely psychological when they see their man hoods disappearing way down into their partner throat and their partner doesn't spits all over the place cum. 

Work your way down your partner's body, beginning with kissing his face and mouth and progressing to his genitals. Be very gentle, as they are highly sensitive to pain. There are many ways of stimulating the penis with your lips and tongue. You can lick all along the shaft with a delicate tongue, then use more pressure and press your open lips as well as your tongue against it as you rub them up and down towards the head.

You can lick and kiss the frenulum - the sensitive place where the glans joins the shaft on the underside, which will be facing towards you if the man is lying on his back with an erection. You can take the head of the penis in your mouth and suck it, tickling it at the same time with your tongue, and you can move your lips as far down the shaft as is comfortable. Then move up and down, sucking and pressing with your lips and tongue.  Try gently sucking his balls, push his legs wide apart, (if he is lying on his back) make little circles around his anus. Alter the pressure of your lips. Don't be in a rush. The best way men like to be treated is to be bought as close to ejaculation / orgasm and kept there as long as possible.

If you feel that he is going to cum, change your method or keep you attention off the tip and as his energy settles return and bring him up again. (This helps to prolong erection time and can be helpful in extending the time of intercourse). You can use your hand on the base part of his penis, sliding it up and down to match the rhythm and direction that his penis is moving in and out of your mouth.  Sometimes for one reason or another reason, but  it might happen he is not hard enough. Usually it caused by nervousness. In this case you have make him comfortable and relaxed and have to give him a little hand job.

In the bedroom knowledge is power!

The best way to do this. Sit him on a chair or on the sofa with open legs. You go down on your knees between his legs. Rub a small amount of saliva or lubricant, for example K-Y jelly into your palm and fingertips. Take his penis into your hand, stroke slowly up and down the shaft. Vary the pressure. If after few minutes his penis not getting any harder, stroke up and down faster. If it doesn't work, form a ring with your thumb and index finger of both hands. Place both rings on his penis as close to the base as close as you can. Hold one ring on the base and move the other up to the head of his penis and stretch his penis with the movement. Repeat it several times in a speedy rhythm until he is hard. It works for most men.

When his cock is hard you should start to play with his balls with one of your hand. Massage them gently. As already mentioned above a lot of men love it when women suck his balls. Now a good time to try it. Be gently, very gently. Those balls extremely sensitive to pain. Or if you don't want to suck them just massage them with one of your hand. With the other hand hold his cock and go into action with your lips and tongue, as described above. If he like rough sex, you should try to pull the balls away from his body. If you think he will cum, slow down. You don't want to take him to the no return point. If you delay his orgasm several times, his joy will be bigger and better when he reach it.

At the end the ejaculation. You can swallow, spit, or let it go somewhere, for example between your bubs. Whatever you choose, you should decide in advance so you can be prepared when the moment arrives.

Although there is no chance for pregnancy to happen from oral sex, unprotected oral sex puts both partners at risk for a number of sexually transmitted diseases. The risks of infection are a bit lower with unprotected oral sex than they are with unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse. Using a barrier during oral sex can further decrease those risks. For oral sex on a man, using a condom reduces the risk. In almost every sex shop possible to buy condoms in any color and any taste that are designed and made for oral sex only. Otherwise, spitting may reduce the risk of certain infections more than swallowing. Of course, keeping ejaculate out of the mouth is even safer. You have to know, it is okay to read about sex. It is okay to watch porno movie and the actors - actress perform un-protected sex. However you should remember, if you have unprotected sex, you have only one body and only one life. It is your body and your life and basically you screw up you own life if something goes wrong. Maybe the sperm taste great, but is it worth?

How to perform oral sex on women >>>