HOW TO CONVINCE HER TO HAVE ANAL SEX?
Is there any man who hasn't wondered the thrill of woman's firm
buttocks pressed close against his groin, hugging, squeezing and kissing the
full length of his manhood. A tight unique sensation sure will pleasure him...
and leaving him extremely satisfied.
So why wont more lady agree to pleasure their sex partner with their golden hole? Taboo or terrific?Many women does believe in anal sex is forbidden... Without a strong sexual relationship women are usually opposed to providing their man with back door access. Just like have sex with a virgin girl for the first time, men need to be gentle and have a firm grasp on how to use sexual discipline. A man with little self control experimenting with anal sex for the first time can ruin this experience for his lady (and potential future sex partners). A man needs to reiterate to his partner that if she begins to experience extreme discomfort the act will cease immediately! She may want to stop now... but if handled correctly she may be willing to try again at another time. Patience is key. Anal Sex Is More Then a French KissGentlemen, please remember this is more than a French Kiss! You are with the woman you respect and you want to make her happy with giving her a orgasm. Don't let movies or videos you have had seen involving anal sex cloud your mind or fill you with unrealistic expectations. For ladies the anal sex for the first time is uncomfortable and scary, but should not be painful. It should not be rushed. Relax, caress, kiss and fondle her... and in return, she may just give you the most unforgettable sex act you have never experienced before. |
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Anal Sex How To:Always use condom! There is no excuse to have anal sex with out condom! Anal sex can produce bleeding plus the anus area is a home for a lot of bacteria. Those bacteris are harmless in and around the anus, but everywhere else they might make troubles... Protect yourself! The lubrication is key to have a great anal sex! Unlike the vagina the anus wont get wet when she is in the mood. You have to get her back door lubricated. Use water or silicon based lubricant, like KY jelly. It is not health hazard to her and it wont damage the condom. Silicon based cost much more, but it lost longer and wont get sticky or hard. Be gently, very gently. Play with her anus. Insert your well lubricated finger in. |
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comfortable with the new sensation first. If she doesn't have pain push your
finger in al the way. Remember, you supposed to take your time and be very
gently. She has to learn how to loose her anal muscle, because this ring muscle automatically try to close the entry door. Also lot of people like to use butt plug or anal toys to get her muscle relaxed. Two muscle rings called sphincters surround the anal openingIf you insert a finger about one half-inch into your anus and press your fingertip against the side, you can clearly feel the two sphincter muscles. There is less than a quarter-inch between them. The external sphincter is controlled by the central nervous system - just like the muscles of the hand, for example. You can readily tense and relax this sphincter whenever you want. The internal sphincter is quite different. This muscle is controlled by the involuntary or autonomic part of the nervous system, which governs such functions as heartbeat and stress response. The internal sphincter reflects and responds to fear and anxiety during anal sex. It will cause the anus to tense up automatically even if the passive partner is trying to relax. Precautions about safety and comfort are essential here. Anal Sex And LubricationIf she is okay with, than try to push in to the rectum your rubberized and well lubricated penis. Go slow. Allow your partner to set the depth and pace. While you are inside her, concentrate on helping her to relax, whisper erotic words in to her ear. Stop immediately if she asks you to! The outer portion of the rectum, like the vagina, has several nerve endings. The highest concentration of nerve endings is around the anal opening itself, so you don't need to deep anal fuck her, except if she ask you to do so. Enjoy Anal Sex To The GreatestAnal pleasure can be psychological as well as physical. The anal taboo adds to the thrill of the forbidden action. A minority of women can reach orgasm with anal sex without direct genital stimulation. Orgasms from anal stimulation are most likely to occur when the sex partners become thoroughly absorbed in their sensations and fantasies. For most of the men to reach orgasm with anal sex is easy, because the rectum with the two muscle is very thigh. Never go from anus to mouth, or anus to vagina, without washing your penis very well. Also have to change condom too. Anal sex is not for everyone. Though most men wish it is. Remember there are so many other ways to enjoy sex to its fullest. Anal sex is just ONE way. Use your imagination and be honest with your partner. To have great anal fun, both of you have to be comfortable with what you do and she should be very relaxed. Also to enjoy anal sex to the greatest you have to pick up the right position.
Anal Sex PositionsAll positions begins with a plenty of lubrications and patience. If your partner complains that it is hurting, do not proceed until your partner is ready and comfortable. Eventually during your erotic fore play your partner's anus will relax enough to allow the head of the penis to enter (if she wants it). When the head is past her first anus muscle, you need to take your time. Remember, the second muscle is out of her control! The best positions for anal sex depends largely on what stage you and your partner are at in your experiences. Rear entry or the "doggie style" position is the position that most people associate with anal sex. However, rear entry allows a penis or anal toy to penetrate deeply, and may not be the best choice for the beginner. A good starting position is with each partner laying on side by side, one behind the other. This prevents the penetrating partner from going too fast, and allows complete control over penetration. It also brings you closer to your partner, making it easier to react to her reactions.
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